How breathing exercises can help you stay sober

Recovery from substance use is rarely just about “not using.” The real battle is often the anxiety, cravings, insomnia, anger, and overwhelming emotions that flood in once the substance is gone. This is where simple breathing exercises become a game-changer: they’re free, private, can be done anywhere, and they give the brain and body an immediate physiological “reset.”

When someone uses drugs or alcohol, the nervous system gets hijacked into chronic fight-or-flight mode. Over time, the body forgets how to relax on its own. Deep, intentional breathing flips the switch from the sympathetic (stress) nervous system to the parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) system in as little as 60–90 seconds. Heart rate slows, blood pressure drops, cortisol decreases, and the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for impulse control and decision-making—comes back online. For a teenager facing a craving at 2 a.m. or a college student triggered by seeing old friends’ post-party photos, that rapid shift can be the difference between texting a dealer and riding the urge out.

Three breathing techniques stand out for battling relapse because they’re quick, discreet, and actually feel good:

1. Box Breathing (4-4-4-4) 
Used by Navy SEALs and pro athletes. Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4. Five rounds lowers acute anxiety and cravings almost instantly. Teens can do it in a bathroom stall, on a bus, or lying in bed.

2. Physiological Sigh (Double Inhale + Long Exhale) 
Discovered by researchers at Stanford University, this pattern—two quick sniffs in through the nose followed by a long sigh out the mouth—rapidly dumps excess CO₂ and calms the brain. Andrew Huberman, an associate professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology calls it the fastest way to down-regulate stress. This strategy is good for panic moments or right after a trigger.

3. 4-7-8 Breathing (Dr. Andrew Weil) 
Inhale quietly through the nose for 4, hold for 7, exhale audibly through the mouth for 8. Four cycles act like a natural tranquilizer and are especially helpful for racing thoughts and insomnia—two of the biggest relapse risks in early recovery.

The science is solid: a 2022 meta-analysis in Frontiers in Psychology showed that slow breathing practices reduce substance craving intensity by an average of 35–50% in the moment and lower overall relapse risk when practiced daily. Even more powerful? Breathing becomes a healthy replacement ritual. Instead of reaching for a vape, a drink, or a pill, young people learn to reach for their breath—something that actually belongs to them naturally.

Consistency matters more than perfection. Two to five minutes, twice a day, plus using the techniques in high-risk moments, rewires the brain toward resilience instead of escape. Over weeks and months, young people report sleeping better, snapping less at family, and feeling emotions without being drowned by them—foundational pieces of long-term sobriety.

Three Trustworthy Resources to Explore Further

1. Inward Breathwork (App – iOS & Android) 
Free recovery-focused breathwork sessions designed with addiction psychiatrists; includes specific protocols for cravings and emotional regulation.

2. “The Breathing App” by Eddie Stern & Deepak Chopra 
Simple, beautiful, and free. Guides you through resonant breathing (the frequency proven most effective for heart-rate variability and emotional balance).

3. HeartMath
Peace of heart is peace of mind — or so the researchers say. HeartMath has been validated in more than 400 independent research studies, and it brings together 30 years of science, clinically tested techniques and biofeedback technology into practical tools and training programs. You can even find a certified coach to help you use this strategy for balancing your mind and emotions — which helps prevent stress and clears your thinking for more effective decision-making. Learn more at HeartMath.com.

Your breath is the one thing that’s been with you through every high and every low—and it will be there for every sober sunrise too. Start small. One conscious breath at a time really does add up to a new life.